5 Unfair
Criticisms People Levy at Strategic Church Leaders
By Carey
Nieuwhof | February 20, 2017 |
If you’re a
church leader who thinks strategically, you’re probably going to get
criticized. Maybe even more than you ever dreamed.
For some
reason, being strategic is often viewed as being unspiritual in
the church. Why?
I mean, if you
want the church to flounder, be unstrategic. Never use your mind, only use your
heart. Never think, only feel.
Saying the
church should never be strategic is like saying God wasn’t strategic when he
designed the universe or even when he designed you. Everything was just random
or emotional; God never invoked what we best understand as rational thought.
The truth is
God showed incredible precision and unfathomable accuracy and detail when
creating the galaxies.
If God created
us to think, why do people criticize leaders who use their minds when
leading?
It’s a real
question. Talk to many Christians, and you’d think logic and strategy are the
enemies of the faith. (Just read the comments scattered throughout the blog…
you’ll see the mindset there.)
You know who
pays the price for this? Among others, the church. Because so often,
churches are poorly led as a result.
To be fair,
we’ve all probably met a few church leaders who were strategic but who showed
little evidence of a profound and personal relationship with Jesus. That’s just
wrong, and that’s not what this post is justifying.
You can be
strategic and deeply devoted to Jesus. You can think and be faithful.
However, if
you’re a strategic leader, get ready.
As soon as the
conversation gets specific and detailed, some people start criticizing. Here’s
what you need to be prepared to hear.
Just because
these phrases sound spiritual doesn’t mean they’re always helpful. And just
because they’re true doesn’t mean they should shut down intelligent, prayerful
discussion.
But too often,
they do, and the church pays a horrible price.
1. You’re not trusting God enough
So…
because I’m planning and thinking, I must not be trusting God?
Trusting God
doesn’t mean “my half-baked idea is good enough for God.”
It doesn’t mean
“let’s just do some ill-considered thing and hope it works out.”
Trust and
strategy can be and should be inherently linked.
Trust isn’t
blind, and strategy isn’t bullet-proof.
When they work
together (like when Paul built the early church), incredible things can happen.
Will God do
more than your strategy suggests he will? Absolutely.
When I look at
everything God has done in my life and leadership, he’s out-delivered my
strategy a thousand times over. I’ve seen God work in me, through me and
in spite of me again and again.
But I often
find that leaders who have a (faithful, well-thought-out) strategy tend to do
greater things in the Kingdom than leaders who don’t.
2. Just get back to the Gospel
Often when the
conversation becomes highly strategic, someone around the table will say
something like “Just get back to the Gospel.”
Should you get
back to the Gospel?
Of course. In
fact, root everything you do deeply in the Gospel and be faithful to it.
Strategy—when
done well—is what gives flesh to the Gospel in your context.
I can hear the
critics now… The Gospel doesn’t need flesh. It doesn’t need help. It
doesn’t need anything.
I get that….
but what are the critics really railing against?
I don’t think
most can answer that.
And notice
this: often the critics who speak the loudest are accomplishing little for the
Gospel in their lives.
They’re not
leading anyone. They may leave critical comments on a blog or write angry
emails to church leaders, but who’s following them? (Other than maybe five
people who write letters/leave comments with them?)
Who are they
leading to Christ?
What are they
building?
What seeds are
they sowing other than seeds of dissension?
The spiritual
gift of criticism is not a spiritual gift.
Do we need to
get back to the Gospel? Absolutely. But the Gospel is as much about moving
forward as it as about moving back.
So keep moving forward.
3. The scripture says….
Ah… scripture
wars.
These are so
hard.
When I was a
young leader, I tried to justify all my actions with scripture.
But you know
what? Often that’s exactly what people try to do when they keep quoting
scripture verses: justify their actions.
And when you
try to explain your position using a series of scripture verses, guess what
someone who disagrees with you will do? The same thing.
And you end up
with a scripture war.
I’m not sure
that’s why God gave us the scriptures.
Again, every
strategy you propose or adopt should be entirely consistent with Scripture and
genuinely biblical, but too often Christians will try to use scriptural
principles to attack preferences with which they disagree.
Often, strategy
comes down to preference.
One person
likes this kind of music; another prefers a different style.
Someone likes a
more traditional architecture; someone else prefers something far more modern.
One group likes
a church with programs running five nights a week; another prefers a simpler
model.
I’m not sure
scripture should be used to justify our preferences. Biblically, there is
freedom on certain issues. And biblically, there is always love.
Sadly, too many
strategic conversations go down in the flames of Scripture wars.
And when we do
that, don’t we play right into the enemy’s hands? As shocking as it sounds, the
scripture sometimes gets used as a weapon against God. (Satan tried this with
Jesus.)
All we do as
Christian leaders should be deeply biblical and scripturally sound.
It isn’t wise
or helpful to use the Bible to beat each other up or shut down needed
discussions.
4. The church is not a business, you know
You’re not a
CEO, you know. And the church is not a business.
I’ve heard this
many times.
Critics who say
this are quite right—and very wrong.
The sentiment
underneath this criticism suggests the church has nothing to learn from the
business world.
Again, without
getting into the scripture wars outlined above, you don’t have to read the
scriptures very deeply before you encounter organizational leadership in the
life of Moses (who couldn’t handle millions of people by himself), or David’s
skillful building of a nation, or Jesus’ organization of his followers into a
group of 70, 12, 3 and 1, or the early church’s reorganization after explosive
initial growth.
As much as it
makes some people wince, historical Christianity has always been about
corporate strategy because it has always been corporate (from the Latin corpus as
in body).
Anyone who
cares about people has to care about organizing people, reaching people and
caring for people.
Sadly, the
business world has become better at it in many cases than the church. Companies
use advanced strategies to make something as shallow and fleeting as profit.
What if the
church used that level of strategic thinking to reach people and make
disciples?
Think about
strategy when it comes to tackling one of the biggest obstacles facing churches
today: breaking the 200 attendance mark. (I wrote about
why 80% of churches never break that barrier here.)
Most churches
fail to break the 200 attendance barrier but it has nothing to do
with their…
Desire. Most leaders I know
want their church to reach more people.
A lack of
prayer. Many small church leaders are incredibly faithful in
prayer.
Love. Some of the people in
smaller churches love people as authentically as anyone I know.
Facility. Growth can start in the most
unlikely places.
You know why
most churches don’t push past the 200 mark in attendance?
You ready?
They organize,
behave, lead and manage like a small organization.
There’s a world
of difference between how you organize a corner store and how you organize a
larger supermarket.
In a corner
store, Mom and Pop run everything. Want to talk to the CEO? She’s
stocking shelves. Want to see the director of marketing? He’s at the cash
register.
Mom and Pop do
everything, and they organize their business to stay small. Which is fine if
you’re Mom and Pop and don’t want to grow.
But you can’t
run a supermarket that way. You organize differently. You govern differently.
There is a produce manager and there are people who only stock shelves. There’s
a floor manager, shift manager, general manager and so much more.
That’s just one
tiny example of how better thinking (things we can learn from the wider world)
can transform the church’s mission today.
To say you
don’t want to organize the body of Christ well is to say you don’t care about
Christ’s body.
5. Just pray about it
We should
absolutely pray about all of the decisions we make, organizationally and
personally. I am full on for prayer.
But often in
the context of a meeting, ‘just pray about it’ becomes the
ultimate shut-down move.
“Just pray
about it” translates to “let’s not make a decision.”
Or it means
“let’s defer that… forever.”
Or, even worse,
‘just pray about it’ suggests that if you actually prayed about it, you would
realize like all the spiritual people do that God would not approve.
Really? Just
because something sounds spiritual doesn’t mean it’s from God. In fact,
sometimes that’s the best way to shut down the mission of the church: make it
sound spiritual, and then kill all forward momentum.
Should you pray
about your decision? Absolutely.
But when you
pray, remember that prayer and thought are not mutually incompatible.
In fact, they
should go hand in hand. The best prayers bring your heart and your mind before
God. They bring all of you and everything you’re dealing with before Christ.
So… by all
means, pray about it. Pray about it deeply. Bring all of your plans before God.
But then act.
Don’t let people
who say ‘just pray about it’ kill the mission of the very church God created.
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